WHAT YOUR ACTIONS COULD COST YOU......

                        

                                 WHAT YOUR ACTIONS COULD COST YOU.

     “Be cautioned about every act and action you take in the present, for they reflect on the future”.

     Be cautioned! Of course, the word sounds like a threat, but that’s the truth, it is. Everyone has to be cautioned about everything he/she does. For life is a mystery and complex, no one could know what could happen in the next few seconds, minutes, hours not even to talk about days, but with our carefulness in our actions, we could always avoid the regretful part of it and welcome the happy part.

     Your acts and actions can cost you a lot in the future if you are not careful with it, this is because this act of yours, are your decisions which is the key to your success or failure.

     If you would climb high the skies, it all depends on your decisions, which is like a car that drives you through life to your success. If that car would be steady till it gets to it’s destination or divert it’s way elsewhere, all depends on a thing which is your decision.

     Be cautioned it says, a mistake in your actions could cost you regrets that could last through out your lifetime. This is the reason why you must not be impetuous, think about whatever act or actions you’re up to or wish to take before executing them, this is because hence any action of yours has been executed, it cannot be reversed to make any corrections on what could cause you regrets.

     When you take a good view about life, you would get to know this fact that those who are known to be the wisest, richest, and famous people around the world, don’t rush themselves while taking their decisions, this is because they are familiar with these rules of life, they take their actions after a good thought about what they want to do and what it could lead them to, “would it cause me a regret or help me advance with my success in life”. They think.

     While those who are known to be fools are people who act rashly without thinking about what their actions could cause them, would my actions cause regrets or make me advance with my success, they don’t care. All they want to do is to get people enticed and impressed with the actions they have taken.

     “Use your brain”. Every human has a brain but most of us had forgotten that such part still exists in our body. Our creator has provided us with something that supersedes any other part of our body, which is the brain. You are meant to use this brains to know the right thing that is meant to be done from the wrong, which is why it is there for us.

     We are meant to use our brains to achieve success and not to misuse them and end up in regrets. Make use of your brain to achieve greatness, the decisions of yours that would lead you to greatness, would only rise from your brain. For you to become successful, wise, fame, great and everything you require and think of achieving in life all depends on how you make use of your brain.

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                                                      CHIBUIKE OCHI.

THIS IS WHY YOU SHOULDN’T PRETEND TO MAKE FRIENDS

                  

                   

“Never pretend to meet up with anyone’s taste, for a true friend would always love you for what and who you are”.

     A friend is a person who we spend our life time with, both the good and bad times of our lives are spent with friends. There are the good and the bad friends, a good friend would always be with you even during your tough times, while a bad one friend would leave you as soon as your tough time begins.

     A true friend would always wish you are yourself, because he/she believes that you are perfect the way you are, they would wish they had met you earlier in life and could spend the rest of their life with you. A true friend just loves your presence in their lives and not what you have to give them.

     When you’re pretending to be what you are not and lying to own what you don’t have just to be able to fit in with some group of people, I guess you’ve missed out on a basis of life which you need to correct today.

     It is only a friend who needs you to accomplish something and after that gets rid of you would require you to meet up with his/her taste to be able to move with you. A true friend would always love you and accept you irrespective of what and who you are. Either you’re lame, poor, blind, short, ugly, handsome or beautiful, they would cherish you.

     You don’t have to pretend to be what you’re not, because when you keep telling lies or pretending to be what you’re not, you keep leaving yourself a lot of duties ahead of you. For each lie you tell, you have a heavy load of work to cover them up so that the truth is not revealed, which becomes a burden for you as each day goes by.

     You don’t necessarily need to pretend to get a friend, because someday you would feel the burden of that pretence becoming heavier for you. Which start prompting you to reveal the true person you are to become free, this then leads you to battle for a stand with life, either to reveal the truth and become free or to keep with you the heavy burden of your lies. Which when you eventually reveal the truth, you lose the friend.

     Be yourself, let those who needs someone of your personality come for you, they are somewhere out there in the world looking for you, they are travelling around the world just to meet you someway, somehow, someday.

     Be that one unique person your creator has made you to be, your creator has created a lot of people that would love your personality, that would cherish you for what and who you are. Your creator never left you on your own, he has sent a lot of people along with you that would be your friend and always make you happy. So you don’t need to pretend to make a friend.

     Always be yourself, never become a pretender so that you don’t miss out on the right people that are meant for you.

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                                                          CHIBUKE OCHI.

WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO WHEN YOU ARE REJECTED IN YOUR SOCIETY.

   

  “Don’t feel bad when you’re rejected in your society, rather feel bad when you fail to give them a reason to accept you”.

     Our society is a place with large numbers and varieties of people, which is a place we have grown from, a place that begins our history. Your first friends and relatives are found in your society, it is a place you and them dwell in.

     Your success starts from the society you grew from. If you are incapable to achieve success or be accepted by these few people of your society, then it would be very difficult for you to achieve success in the outer world wherever you find yourself.

     Some feels very bad and frustrated when they are not accepted for what they are or what they do in the society, it shouldn’t leave you bad or frustrated, rather it tells you that you have to work more hard to give them a reason why they must accept you. When you fail to give them a reason to accept you, then you should feel bad because you’re already a failure to yourself and to your society.

     If you would become successful, it all starts from your society, if you would become a failure, it as well starts from your society.

     The question is, “what can you offer the people of your society?”. What impact can you make in your society, because your impact in the society, determines if you would be accepted or rejected by them.

     For everyone in a society, there must be something you are ready and willing to offer, there should be something that makes you unique from others, what you are capable of offering that nobody or few can do what you are capable of.

     When you are a source of something your society needs a lot and cannot do without, it could be happiness, success, strength, lots and lot of things, there is no way you can be rejected, when you offer a little bit of assistance for the society, there’s no way you  can be rejected, but when there is nothing you’re capable of, when there is nothing you can offer , when there is nothing that makes you unique, then you’re of no use to the society.

     This is when a lot of questions will be raised about you. What have you been able to offer us?. what have you ever done for us?. They would shout and most time murmur about.

     It’s time every rejected person gets to their feet to prove to the society what his/her worth is, what you’re made of and what you’re capable of, it is time to tell the society that you’re not a weakling by stepping out to give what you have.

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                                                             CHIBUIKE OCHI.

WHAT YOU MUST DO TO CHANGE A MILLION LIVES....

                                

“The count of a million starts by counting one. To change a million lives, you have to start with a person. That person is you”.

     A million count a million lives, all starts by the counting of one. if you would impact a positive change to a million lives, you have to start this trend of change with yourself, which is where your million count starts.

     The world today, has become something else, lots of bad acts has preceded over the good acts, turning the world into a place that deprives us a lot of our human rights. It could be your happiness, joy, peace, smiles and lots of things.

What the world has become today, has affected every one of us in one way or the other, which has cost us a lot.

     In most society today, you find corruption and unfair treatment of the less privileged, which leaves a lot of us heart breaking while some derive pleasures and fun from it as they as profit from them. But how do we get rid of these acts to make our world a better place for ourselves, our future and for the next generation to come.

     There are millions and billions of people that are found in different society of the world, but how can we make this positive change spread round our society.

     Many of us are not happy about these things, and are really determined to make great efforts to eradicate this bad act that has come to take over our world.

     This can’t be possible if you are not a changed person, and your action doesn’t reflect these change you desire. The change you desire for your world, your society, has to start from somewhere, and that that place is in you, “your heart”.

     If you seem not to be satisfied with the brand you find your society to be, it’s your duty to re-brand them to be able to offer your society the best.

     The society is a place that has a lot of people in it, for you to be able to offer them what you have, you should be capable to show them what you are made of, what you are capable to offer them, and also be able to let them see the change you are desperate and willing to make.

     We cannot offer what we don’t have, and for us to offer what we have, we should have made ourselves what we want to offer others, because to change a million lives, the trend has to start from a person, and that person would always have to be you. For it is what we have made ourselves, proves to us and others what we are capable of offering our society and our world.

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                                                              CHIBUIKE OCHI.

WHAT YOU MUST DO TO CHANGE A MILLION LIVE.