WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO WHEN YOU ARE REJECTED IN YOUR SOCIETY.

   

  “Don’t feel bad when you’re rejected in your society, rather feel bad when you fail to give them a reason to accept you”.

     Our society is a place with large numbers and varieties of people, which is a place we have grown from, a place that begins our history. Your first friends and relatives are found in your society, it is a place you and them dwell in.

     Your success starts from the society you grew from. If you are incapable to achieve success or be accepted by these few people of your society, then it would be very difficult for you to achieve success in the outer world wherever you find yourself.

     Some feels very bad and frustrated when they are not accepted for what they are or what they do in the society, it shouldn’t leave you bad or frustrated, rather it tells you that you have to work more hard to give them a reason why they must accept you. When you fail to give them a reason to accept you, then you should feel bad because you’re already a failure to yourself and to your society.

     If you would become successful, it all starts from your society, if you would become a failure, it as well starts from your society.

     The question is, “what can you offer the people of your society?”. What impact can you make in your society, because your impact in the society, determines if you would be accepted or rejected by them.

     For everyone in a society, there must be something you are ready and willing to offer, there should be something that makes you unique from others, what you are capable of offering that nobody or few can do what you are capable of.

     When you are a source of something your society needs a lot and cannot do without, it could be happiness, success, strength, lots and lot of things, there is no way you can be rejected, when you offer a little bit of assistance for the society, there’s no way you  can be rejected, but when there is nothing you’re capable of, when there is nothing you can offer , when there is nothing that makes you unique, then you’re of no use to the society.

     This is when a lot of questions will be raised about you. What have you been able to offer us?. what have you ever done for us?. They would shout and most time murmur about.

     It’s time every rejected person gets to their feet to prove to the society what his/her worth is, what you’re made of and what you’re capable of, it is time to tell the society that you’re not a weakling by stepping out to give what you have.

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                                                             CHIBUIKE OCHI.