Saturday, 10 September 2016

THIS IS WHY YOU SHOULDN’T PRETEND TO MAKE FRIENDS


                  

                   

“Never pretend to meet up with anyone’s taste, for a true friend would always love you for what and who you are”.
     A friend is a person who we spend our life time with, both the good and bad times of our lives are spent with friends. There are the good and the bad friends, a good friend would always be with you even during your tough times, while a bad one friend would leave you as soon as your tough time begins.
     A true friend would always wish you are yourself, because he/she believes that you are perfect the way you are, they would wish they had met you earlier in life and could spend the rest of their life with you. A true friend just loves your presence in their lives and not what you have to give them.
     When you’re pretending to be what you are not and lying to own what you don’t have just to be able to fit in with some group of people, I guess you’ve missed out on a basis of life which you need to correct today.
     It is only a friend who needs you to accomplish something and after that gets rid of you would require you to meet up with his/her taste to be able to move with you. A true friend would always love you and accept you irrespective of what and who you are. Either you’re lame, poor, blind, short, ugly, handsome or beautiful, they would cherish you.
     You don’t have to pretend to be what you’re not, because when you keep telling lies or pretending to be what you’re not, you keep leaving yourself a lot of duties ahead of you. For each lie you tell, you have a heavy load of work to cover them up so that the truth is not revealed, which becomes a burden for you as each day goes by.
     You don’t necessarily need to pretend to get a friend, because someday you would feel the burden of that pretence becoming heavier for you. Which start prompting you to reveal the true person you are to become free, this then leads you to battle for a stand with life, either to reveal the truth and become free or to keep with you the heavy burden of your lies. Which when you eventually reveal the truth, you lose the friend.
     Be yourself, let those who needs someone of your personality come for you, they are somewhere out there in the world looking for you, they are travelling around the world just to meet you someway, somehow, someday.
     Be that one unique person your creator has made you to be, your creator has created a lot of people that would love your personality, that would cherish you for what and who you are. Your creator never left you on your own, he has sent a lot of people along with you that would be your friend and always make you happy. So you don’t need to pretend to make a friend.
     Always be yourself, never become a pretender so that you don’t miss out on the right people that are meant for you.
              Thanks for reading through. If this article was helpful, don’t hesitate to share.
                                                          CHIBUKE OCHI.

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