WHAT YOU REQUIRE TO WRITE OFF YOUR MISTAKES AND FAILURES….

“A thousand cry or advice will not write off your mistakes or failure. Only a thousand hard work can”.

     Failure!, what a freighting word everyone despise. But the truth is failure comes in different meaning and ways to different people, and almost everyone of us has failed.

     Failure, this word becomes tagged to your name when you do not succeed in your attempts. Many would think that failure only exists in the classrooms and places of work but failure does not just end there. We could fail at any place we find ourselves, in our homes and lots of places we find ourselves.

     When most people fail, they cry over and over again there after they meet with someone who could advice them hoping to hear from the person that “everything is going to be okay if only they work hard”, which of course it’s same thing you would hear everywhere.

     After listening to those consoling words, after a few minutes they get better back to their normal ways forgetting the fact that the words they heard was tagged with hard work, which has got to make them work harder, but yet they hope to come out successful after another attempt which is not possible.

     Why most of us fail over and over again is because, we miss out from a vital thing that has to be done to help us achieve our success which is hard work. Most people go back to their crying ways after another failure while few has got to discover that their failure was because they were less hardworking, then they get on the track with a lot of determination and hard work so that they don’t fall a victim of failure anymore.

     The numbers of days you cried and met with a counselor for advice would not determine for you a step of your success, what determines your success is the effort you are ready to give to achieve success after your attempts. If you had cried when you fail in your attempt, this means you despise failure, and if you had as well met with someone for advice after failing in an attempt of yours, this means you wish never to fail again. But all this will never be possible if you don’t include an atom of effort, because “without an effort, there would never be a success”.  

     A thousand cry will not make you successful neither would a thousand strategies can, without any hard work to make your strategies work out, for you to achieve your dreams and make them become a reality.

     If you would ever become successful, it all depends on your hard works, determination and the efforts you apply to each of your attempts. Your desires for your success should always make you long for success and keep you focused, even when the probability in an attempt is slim, you would still give everything you can to achieve success.

     I guess it’s time everyone stop their crying ways and get on track to achieve success, by applying all efforts you can. “Your success isn’t worth a trial, rather deserves your best”.

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WHAT YOUR WORTH TRUELY IS....

YOUR WORTH....

 

YOUR WORTH…

     Worth, when a lot of people hears this word, what comes up in their minds will be the cash in the bank, the properties and assets you own around the world, which is very much right, but there is just this unique thing behind it that makes up your worth aside from your wealth and properties, which is of course your personality.

     Your worth shouldn’t just be what you have in the bank alone nor the varieties of properties and assets you own around the world, rather your worth should be what you are made of, that makes you capable to be able to achieve success out of the little and limited resources you have.

     Your personality, which is what you are made of, what you are capable of doing, I think that is the most suitable definition for worth. As you all know, wealth, properties and assets could be passed on from generation to generation, which when passed down to you, would automatically make you become rich. But this is not just the end of it all, nor would it stabilize your riches. ‘NO’, that isn’t going to be possible because you need enough hard work to get your riches multiplied and stable.

     When wealth has been passed on to you if fortunately your parent were rich, the question now would be, what is your own worth?, is it just all about what your parents had passed on to you or what you’ve been able to achieve from what had been passed on to you?. For the worth which had made your parents excelled during their own time and to have acquired the wealth and riches that has made them known in the society are now yours waiting to make a difference.

     Every human’s worth is different, what your parents worth were, shouldn’t be what your worth would be, they have made great things and as well mistakes too. Now the wealth are yours, the world are watching you closely hoping that you supersede your parents, this is because you had watched your parents aged, as a responsible child, you should be able to identify their flaws and weaknesses, that had brought them down a bit and now it’s your time, you should be able to come up with a new plan to write off your parents mistakes and outshine them.

     Today, the question is, what is your worth?, is it just all about the tips your parents had left behind for you, or the things you can make out yourself from the things you had experienced from your parents, who had laid a good example for you. Today I challenge you to find out what your worth is and show it to the world.

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THE BEAUTY OF LIFE...

                                                          

                                                     THE BEAUTY OF LIFE…..

     Life is beautiful and worthy of living.  ‘The beauty of life’, how fascinating it sounds, this tells you that there is more beauty and meaning about life than what you are viewing in your present. The beauty of life is the fascinating part of life, but there is just this strange thing about it. If you haven’t worked so hard, you would only see and sense that beauty of life, but you will not be able to experience it or be a part of it.

    “How can I find or be a part of that beauty of life?”. Most of you would really be anxious to get a answer from that question that would have risen in your minds. This beauty of life is a reward of your hard work, when you have denied yourself most things, you had done away with a lot of your time, pleasures and so many other things just for the sake of the dream you have longed for, to achieve it.

     The beauty of life, this is a result of what you have suffered for to achieve. But to the real truth, it’s not just all about the wealth you have acquired or the good and fascinating things you are enjoying, there is this very important thing hidden behind it of which it is ‘what you have learnt’.

     Without what you have learnt, you cannot make anything beautiful out of life. For it is what you have that you use to find a meaning to your own world. Your knowledge is what you have, it is what you need that helps you to set up your plans from what you have learnt from, various people.

     You are different and unique today, this is because of what you have learnt, which has been what you have been making use of that has made you what you are today. If success would come your way, this is because you can effectively apply what you have learnt that is in your head to create things that could be admired and useful.

     The pride of a man isn’t just what he has in the bank, but as well what he has in the head. If you are rich, and you have not learnt how to make use of your money to make some extras more, then I must say you are gradually walking into your doom, this is because the money in the bank keeps on reducing without a replacement for the one’s you have spent, which at the end of it all leaves you with nothing.

      We learn in a lot of ways. In life, learning is an activity of human life which occurs every seconds, minutes, hours and days of our life. Our creator had provided for us an enhancer which helps us to enhance our learning, which is our “BRAINS”. Our duties, is to make use of it judiciously. By mere looking, it is a medium of learning, by helping out someone with his/her duties, you are learning. Although you might not have discovered that you have learnt anything at that spot but that’s just a fact.

     After a lot of your looking and helping and you decided to give a try to what you have seen earlier, and to your great surprise you made it perfectly, how would that have happened if you had never seen it done before. For you to become successful, there is this important factor which is required even before your funds could take it’s place, which is the content in your head. How were you successful in making up a content of your own if you had never learnt anything to set out your own theory, which has been boiling in your head to get it actualized, which by actualization it becomes a success for you.

     Would you love to give learning a try today?. For everyone reading this post, I would love it if you could try out something new about life today, all you have got to do is just try to get a glimpse of what you have longed for or wished you could do and give it a try. I guess you would want to have a taste of what life’s beauty is, which one of them is when you have made success from whatever you have tried out in life.

     Don’t feel bad about your first result if you didn’t get it, slow and steady with a lot of trails it’s the secret behind it if you really want to make success from it. For the fact that you have made a try, it gives you a chance to attain success.

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                       Jealousy in human life…

            “To humanity jealousy is natural, but never let them control your actions”.

     For the fact that we are humans and exhibits human characteristics makes us not to be perfect. There are lots of human natures that are unavoidable, but there is just a way to avoid them, by not letting them control your actions.

     Someone once said that, “there is a beast that dwells in humans, when you let them out, you should be ready to bear the consequences for not controlling it”. Of course everyone seems to have such nature but the difference is how we tame the beast inside of us, this makes us what we appear to be. When you let the beast inside of you control you then, most actions you take would no longer be yours rather that of the beast, but when you tame it most of the actions if not all would be your decision.

       Jealousy, of course every human has an atom of jealousy in them which I don’t see it to be bad, because it’s nature. It turns out to be evil when you have lost control over it. Jealousy could change you for better or worse.

     When you can tame the jealousy inside of you, it would always help you to fasten up in your weakness whenever it comes up, but if you can’t, it makes you see and think evil just to make you always plan evil for a people who has made it through, to achieve their goals.

     When jealousy has taken over you, you begin to see a reason where there is no reason, this happens in the sense that things you wouldn’t have considered on a normal day, you would begin to consider them not even in a positive way but a negative way.

     Where there is a tamed jealousy, there would be no evil and peace would reign, where jealousy has taken over, there would be a lot of evil events which begins to come up from every little thing, because jealousy itself is evil, it only demands destruction.

     If you demand a better world, that world has to start with you, you have to begin the world you wish for, from you. Then you can pass on that trend of change in you, gradually you begin to see that world you have longed for becoming a reality. This is why you have to find out the things that had been the cause of the wrongs in the society that has been destroying the world and try putting them back to place.

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